Exposing the Myths of Casual Sex
10 November 2021
Casual sex is not as advertised. We now have decades of statistics on the health and emotional harms of promiscuity – a reality that more and more young people are becoming aware of.
There is a mountain of media out there promoting a phony philosophy about the joys of casual sex – recreational, risky sexual encounters that do not involve commitment. One need look no farther than the junk advice featured in magazines like Cosmopolitan to see just how pernicious and all-pervasive casual sex is.
The time for some straight talk about this sexual trend is long overdue. Every young person needs to know the following three truths.
1. Casual Sex Dramatically Increases STD Rates
Girls who are sexually active in their early teens are twice as likely to contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD), and about 40 per cent will become pregnant. According to Dr Meg Meeker, a pediatrician and author, “almost half of all girls are likely to become infected with an STD during their very first sexual experience.”
Girls are far more susceptible to STDs than guys because of the biology of the cervix. And a report, The Cost of Free Love, from Concerned Women for America (CWA), highlights that there are now some 49 different STDS.
There is no escaping the fact that we are amidst an STD epidemic, with more than 20 million new STD cases every year. The majority of these cases affect 15 to 25-year-olds. These inconvenient facts go unreported, and supposedly responsible adults still encourage early sexual activity for girls.
2. Casual Sex Makes Young People Lonely
Conventional wisdom says that if you tell a lie often enough, people will begin to believe it. The mantra, heard from middle school onward, is that sex is great recreation – that it’s free and fun. Sadly, many girls don’t recognize the lie until it’s too late.
Those who start sexual activity in their early teens are likely to have more than a dozen partners – four times higher than those who begin sexual activity in their early twenties. Talking about her new boyfriend, a college coed explained that she would “tell him about two guys I slept with, but not the others.” She added, “Once you get beyond five, it sounds kind of slutty.”
School and college counsellors tell us that sexually active girls are three times more likely to be depressed than their abstinent peers. Among the boys, sexually active males are depressed twice as often. Sexually active teens are more likely than their abstinent counterparts to attempt suicide (girls 15 per cent compared to five per cent, and boys six per cent compared to one per cent).
But the most telling fact is that the majority of teenagers – 72 per cent of the girls and 55 per cent of the boys – acknowledge regret over early sexual activity and wish that they had waited longer to have sex. So much for the cultural mantra that sex is no big deal!
3. Casual Sex Makes Girls the Losers
The bottom line is that only one-third of girls who had early sexual activity describe themselves as “happy” compared with over half among those who waited. More than a quarter of sexually active girls report depression, and they are three times more likely to commit suicide.
As Dr Miriam Grossman warns in her book, Unprotected, women are hardwired to attach through sexual behaviour. No condom will protect them from the psychological consequences of sexual permissiveness: empty relationships, feelings of self-contempt and worthlessness, and even depression.
A significant contributor to today’s promiscuous culture is the unlevel playing field – 57 per cent of students in college are women. In her Weekly Standard article about this situation, Charlotte Allen explained that the Sexual Revolution was supposed to do away with the double standard. However, there is now a harsher, more cruel double standard: a supply-saturated, short-term sexual marketplace. Students at Yale University have a sad term for it now: SWUG-Nation, with “SWUG” standing for “Senior Washed Up Girls.”
The harsh realities of casual, drunken sex should make the choice of abstinence very simple. If there were more honest discussions of the pain caused by promiscuity, the market value of virginity would dramatically increase.
Young people need to choose carefully. Sex can never be free; choices always have consequences. We cannot expect young people to act responsibly when neither adults nor the culture provides the best possible information to encourage self-discipline and self-control, which are the surest keys to young people’s long-term well-being.
Originally published at American Thinker. Image by Jade Masri at Unsplash.
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